Tracing is the whole practical problem. Separate character survives a change of form. Cash from the sale of a premarital house can buy shares and stay separate, provided the spouse can show the chain. What defeats it is commingling: once separate dollars are deposited into an account that also receives wages and pays household bills, there is usually no way to say which dollars are which, and the burden falls on the spouse asserting the separate claim. California's reimbursement statute shows the standard in operation: on divorce, a party is reimbursed for contributions to the acquisition of community property "to the extent the party traces the contributions to a separate property source," and that reimbursement is "without interest or adjustment for change in monetary values" and cannot exceed the net value of the property at division. So a $60,000 separate down payment that a spouse can trace comes back as $60,000, not as a proportionate share of a house that has since doubled. The practical protection is unglamorous and cheap: keep the separate asset in its own account, never route joint income through it, and keep the statements from the dates that matter, which are the wedding, any transfer, and any large contribution.
Transmutation is the doctrine, and its formality requirement is the thing to check. Transmutation is a change in the character of property between spouses, from separate to marital, marital to separate, or one spouse's separate property to the other's. California requires an express act: "a transmutation of real or personal property is not valid unless made in writing by an express declaration that is made, joined in, consented to, or accepted by the spouse whose interest in the property is adversely affected," with a narrow exception for gifts between spouses of clothing, jewelry and similar personal articles that are not substantial in value. That statute also says expressly that it does not affect "the law governing characterization of property in which separate property and community property are commingled or otherwise combined," which is the point worth carrying away: a writing requirement for transmutation does not protect an asset from being lost through commingling, because commingling is a different doctrine. Other states infer transmutation from conduct, most commonly from putting a spouse's name on the title.
Income from separate property: a real split, with two statutes at the poles. California's separate-property statute makes "the rents, issues, and profits" of separate property separate. Idaho's community-property statute runs the other way: "the income, including the rents, issues and profits, of all property, separate or community, is community property," unless the conveyance so provides or both spouses by written agreement specifically declare otherwise. Two community-property states, opposite defaults. A couple who move between states, or who assume a rule they read about applies to them, can be wrong about years of rental income or dividends. This is the single most useful question to answer early for a spouse with an income-producing separate asset.
Active and passive appreciation. Growth in a separate asset is treated differently depending on what produced it. Appreciation that came from market movement on an asset nobody worked at is ordinarily as separate as the asset. Appreciation that came from a spouse's own labor during the marriage is contested, because that labor is a marital contribution, and states have developed apportionment approaches to divide the increase between the separate asset and the marital effort. The asset where this bites hardest is a business a spouse owned before the marriage and then ran for twenty years. Two facts follow for anyone holding one: the value at the date of marriage is worth documenting contemporaneously, and paying oneself a market salary out of the business reduces the argument that the marital estate went uncompensated.
The tax consequence a divorce-framed discussion misses. IRC 1014(b)(6) gives a new basis at the first death to "property which represents the surviving spouse's one-half share of community property." That is what produces the much-cited double step-up in a community property state, and it applies only to community property. An asset a spouse deliberately kept separate does not get it. If the asset was the decedent's separate property, it is included in their gross estate and receives a new basis under the ordinary rule; if it was the survivor's separate property, nothing happens to its basis at all. Couples in community property states who separate an appreciated asset for divorce-planning reasons are trading a divorce protection for a tax cost that only shows up at death, and it is worth deciding that deliberately rather than by default.