The line the uniform act draws, and the one most consumer guidance misses. Section 14-03.2-02(3) of North Dakota's enactment puts two agreements outside the act entirely: "an agreement between spouses which affirms, modifies, or waives a marital right or obligation and requires court approval to become effective," and "an agreement between spouses who intend to obtain a marital dissolution or court-decreed separation which resolves their marital rights or obligations and is signed when a proceeding for marital dissolution or court-decreed separation is commenced." Two facts separate a postnuptial agreement from a separation agreement, then: the spouses intend to remain married, and no dissolution proceeding has been commenced. Once a case is filed, the couple is negotiating a settlement, which is a different instrument reviewed under different rules.
What the agreement is allowed to be about. The act defines "marital right or obligation" as any of five things arising between spouses because of their marital status: spousal support; a right to property, including characterization, management and ownership; responsibility for a liability; rights to property and responsibility for liabilities at separation, marital dissolution or death of a spouse; and award and allocation of attorney's fees and costs. Characterization is the item that does the most work in practice, because it lets a couple agree in advance whether a business interest, an inheritance or the appreciation on a premarital asset is separate or marital property, rather than leaving it to be argued later.
Formation is simple; enforcement is where the conditions live. The agreement must be in a record and signed by both parties, and it is enforceable without consideration, which resolves an old objection that a couple already married has nothing new to exchange. It takes effect on signing. Under section 14-03.2-08 it is unenforceable if the party resisting it proves that consent was involuntary or the result of duress; that the party did not have access to independent legal representation; that, absent independent counsel, the agreement lacked either a conspicuous notice of waiver of rights or a plain-language explanation of the rights being modified or waived; or that the party did not receive adequate financial disclosure before signing. The act spells out what each of those means, including a definition of access to counsel that turns on having a reasonable time to find and consult a lawyer and on the other party either being unrepresented or agreeing to pay reasonable fees.
Two backstops survive even a properly formed agreement. If the agreement modifies or eliminates spousal support and that causes a party to become eligible for public assistance at separation or dissolution, the court may require the other party to provide support to the extent necessary to avoid that eligibility. And a court may refuse to enforce a term that was unconscionable when signed, or whose enforcement "would result in substantial hardship for a party because of a material change in circumstances arising after the agreement was signed." Both questions are decided by the court as a matter of law.
Terms that do not bind, whatever the agreement says. Section 14-03.2-09 makes a term unenforceable to the extent it adversely affects a child's right to support, limits a remedy available to a victim of domestic violence, purports to modify the grounds for a separation or dissolution, or penalizes a party for starting a proceeding. A term about parental rights and responsibilities is not binding on the court at all.
The retirement-plan point, which is where a postnup can do something a prenup cannot. A prenuptial agreement cannot waive a spouse's survivor rights in a workplace retirement plan, because federal law requires the consent of a spouse and a fiancé is not one yet. A postnuptial agreement is signed by a spouse, which removes that obstacle but does not by itself satisfy the rule. ERISA section 205, at 29 U.S.C. 1055(c)(2)(A), requires that the spouse consent in writing, that the election designate a beneficiary or a form of benefits that cannot be changed without further consent, and that the consent acknowledge the effect of the election and be "witnessed by a plan representative or a notary public." A waiver buried in a postnuptial agreement that meets none of those formalities is not a plan consent, and the plan will pay the surviving spouse.
Why postnuptial agreements are scrutinized differently from prenuptial ones. A couple negotiating before marriage are legal strangers dealing at arm's length. Spouses already owe each other duties, and in a number of states those duties are described as fiduciary or confidential, which affects how a court reads a bargain struck between them. The uniform act responds by applying the same enforcement section to both instruments; states that have not enacted it may apply a stricter standard to a postnuptial agreement, so the governing state's law is the thing to establish first rather than any general rule.