Why the property stays out of the survivor's estate. Two Internal Revenue Code sections do the work, and both work by absence. Section 2033 includes in a decedent's gross estate the value of property "to the extent of the interest therein of the decedent at the time of his death," and a beneficiary of someone else's trust holds no such interest in the trust's property. Section 2041 then includes property over which the decedent held a general power of appointment, defined at section 2041(b)(1) as a power exercisable in favor of the holder, the holder's estate, the holder's creditors or the creditors of the holder's estate. The exception at 2041(b)(1)(A) is the one bypass trusts are drafted around: a power to consume or invade property for the holder's own benefit "which is limited by an ascertainable standard relating to the health, education, support, or maintenance" of the holder is not a general power. So a surviving spouse can be a beneficiary, can receive all the income, can even serve as trustee with the power to distribute principal to herself, and still own nothing for estate tax purposes, provided the principal power is fenced by that standard.
What portability does not do, which is the whole modern case for the structure. A timely portability election preserves the first spouse's unused federal exclusion for the survivor, and for many couples that is simpler and cheaper than a trust. Four gaps remain:
First, there is no portability of the generation-skipping transfer tax exemption. It is allocated separately and it dies with the person who did not use it, so a couple who want a long-term trust for grandchildren cannot rely on portability to preserve the first spouse's GST exemption.
Second, portability is a federal mechanism only, and a federal election does nothing about a state estate tax. A state that imposes one sets its own exclusion and decides for itself whether any part of it may transfer to a surviving spouse, so in a state that has not provided for that, a trust is the only way to use the first spouse's state exclusion at all.
Third, section 2010(c)(4)(B)(i) measures the transferred amount by reference to the last deceased spouse, so a surviving spouse who remarries and is widowed again can lose the exclusion preserved from the first marriage. A funded trust cannot be displaced by a later marriage.
Fourth, and least about tax, portability leaves the property in the survivor's hands. The survivor can spend it, give it away, or leave it to someone else. A bypass trust settles who takes the remainder at the first death, which is frequently the actual reason a blended family uses one.
The price, stated plainly, because it is easy to leave out. Property that is not in the surviving spouse's gross estate is not revalued at the surviving spouse's death. The trust's assets took a new basis at the first death and keep it, however long the survivor lives and however much the trust grows. So the structure trades an estate tax saving on the growth for an income tax cost on the same growth, borne later by whoever sells. Which side of that trade wins depends on the size of the combined estate, on whether a state estate tax applies, and on whether the assets are ever sold at all.