The ceiling, and the trap inside the statute's own text. Section 129(a)(2)(A) caps the exclusion at $7,500, or $3,750 in the case of a separate return by a married individual. That figure was substituted for the long-standing $5,000 and $2,500 by the 2025 tax act, effective for taxable years beginning after December 31, 2025, and it carries no inflation adjustment: nothing in the section indexes it. Anyone reading the section from the top should know that subparagraph (D), a spent special rule that applied only to taxable years beginning after 2020 and before 2022, still quotes the old dollar strings in order to substitute against them. It was never conformed to the amendment, and it reads exactly like current law.
The earned income limitation is the limit that actually binds. Under section 129(b)(1), the amount excluded cannot exceed the employee's earned income if they are unmarried, and for a married employee cannot exceed the lesser of the employee's earned income and the spouse's earned income. A household where one spouse has stopped working has an exclusion limit of zero, however much care it is paying for, which is the single most common way a full election turns into a partly taxable one. Section 129(b)(2) supplies the relief valve by applying section 21(d)(2), which treats a spouse who is a full-time student or who is incapable of self-care as having a deemed monthly earned income. The child and dependent care credit page carries those deemed amounts, since the same rule does the same job there.
Section 129(c) rules out paying the obvious people. No exclusion is available for amounts paid to an individual with respect to whom a dependency deduction is allowable to the employee or the employee's spouse, or to an individual who is a child of the employee under the age of 19 at the close of the taxable year. So paying a 17-year-old to watch a younger sibling produces nothing excludable, and neither does paying a grandparent who is claimed as a dependent. Section 129(e)(9) adds an administrative condition with real teeth: no amount is excluded unless the name, address and taxpayer identification number of the care provider are included on the return, unless the employee shows due diligence in trying to obtain them. A cash arrangement with a babysitter who will not give a Social Security number is, in tax terms, not an arrangement at all.
Nondiscrimination testing can reach backwards, and the employee cannot fix it. Section 129(d) conditions the whole exclusion on the plan meeting a set of tests that look at the workforce rather than at the individual. Contributions and benefits must not discriminate in favor of highly compensated employees (d)(2); eligibility must satisfy a classification test (d)(3); no more than 25 percent of the amounts paid during the year may go to the class of individuals owning more than five percent of the employer (d)(4); and under (d)(8)(A) the average benefit provided to employees who are not highly compensated must be at least 55 percent of the average provided to those who are, though (d)(8)(B) allows a plan funding benefits by salary reduction to disregard employees earning less than $25,000 for that test. Section 129(d)(9) excludes certain young and short-service employees and collectively bargained employees from the counts. Where a plan fails, section 129(d)(1) preserves the exclusion for employees who are not highly compensated, which tells you who bears the consequence. Employers commonly test mid-year and cut back the elections of higher earners in response, which is why a highly compensated employee's dependent care election is the least reliable benefit election they make.
How the money is reconciled, and why it lands on your return rather than your paycheck. Section 129(d)(7) requires the plan to furnish each employee, on or before January 31, a written statement of the amounts paid or expenses incurred in providing dependent care assistance during the previous calendar year. The employer reports the total in box 10 of the Form W-2. The employee then completes Part III of Form 2441, which starts from that total, subtracts qualified expenses actually incurred, applies the earned income limitation and the statutory ceiling, and produces a taxable benefits figure that flows to the wages line of the Form 1040. Section 129(a)(2)(B) fixes the year: any excess is included in gross income in the taxable year in which the dependent care services were provided, even where payment happens later. Two practical consequences follow. Benefits you could not exclude become taxable income without the money coming back to you, and amounts you contributed but never spent are generally forfeited under the cafeteria plan's own rules. Section 129(e)(7) closes the loop by denying any deduction or credit for an amount already excluded, which is the provision that stops a household counting the same dollar twice.